The thing that ticks me off

People are always making up excuses. I want to be tan but i don't have the patience I want to travel the world but i don't have the money I want to make friends but I'm too shy If you have ever said any of those things, or anything parecido to those things. You are either lieing to yourself, or lieing to the person you are talking too. And that is unacceptable. They said "obstacles are the things you see when you take your eye off the goal" Because that is true. If you are so set on reaching a goal, you don't even conciser the obstacles. And usually, you succeed. What really makes me mad when people say these things, is that they believe them to be true. They believe that they are just stuck not making friends because they are too shy. That is so completely and totally wrong. The truth is, they would rather be shy than have friends. they would rather be in their own personal bubble, than have friends. If what they honestly and truly want, is to have more friends, they would go out there and work and make friends. Being shy would not stop them from reaching their goal. However, the truth is, what they want is for people to make them their friend. There is a difference. They do not want to make friends. They want other people to make them their friend. This requires no energy, no pressure, and no risk of failure. But that is the stupidest idea one could have. If you want something. You do it. If you want to lose weight. you work out. If you don't. you eat. You have two choices. You want one more than the other. So if you sit around complaining that you would looooove to be skinny. Stop eating so much. Because the way you act and the way you speak are so hypocritical.